My first question when I'm confronted with disadvantaged people is not "what do I tell them?" It is "what can I do to help them?" Still, it might be that the best way I can help them is by telling them something. How do I know what the best thing for them to do is? I have to take the time to learn about their situation, see it from their point of view, understand their constraints and difficulties. Only then can I advise them helpfully about what they might do to improve their situation.Ondrej wrote:I think it is true that some people are poor not of their own choice. I think it is also true that some people are exploited although, as you say, this is another conversation.
What do you tell these people? It's not your fault? Which is to say, there's nothing you can do? You've been exploited? No, this is not helpful! This drives them further into despair. There's nothing they can do and they are being taken advantage of. What needs to be said is, look here are the things you have control of, in other words, what you are doing wrong. If they are in a bad situation and they are in control of some key driving forces behind their situation, one can only hope they are doing SOMETHING wrong. Then you give them some hope, some control over their future. If they are not walking around thinking everyone is trying to take advantage of them perhaps the world will open up to them.
And that is exactly what I did when I was in London. A group of us founded a debt advice charity. This charity never gave any money to anyone. It gave time. If someone came to us, we would ask them to let us see all their financial details. Then we would look carefully through, and come up with a plan for how they could spend less and earn more. We might also advise them to move their debt from a high-interest creditor to a low-interest creditor - something they might not have known was possible, or known how to do it. In my experience, most of the people who came to us were not born in the UK and their level of English was not great. They were unfamiliar with UK financial culture and law, and thus rather helpless. Quite likely they had been taken advantage of by creditors who knew that these people couldn't decipher the fine print of the debt. Is there anything we can say about the morality of such creditors?
These people did need to be given agency. But they could only be given it by people who had compassion on them in an active way.