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Ondrej wrote:Why is getting what you deserve bad? I don’t understand this. How will we learn to grapple with the truth without getting what we deserve. That is what facing the truth is.
I think it is very hard to determine precisely what an individual "deserves."
  • What does someone born paraplegic, unable to work, deserve?
  • What does someone struck down in their 40s by some illness or accident, rendering them unable to work, deserve?
  • What does a child born in an African desert in a famine deserve?
  • What does someone born to rich parents in America, sent to the finest University for a stellar education, and given a high-paying job, deserve?
  • What does someone in the hospitality industry in the middle of a pandemic, driven to destitution by an unfortunate choice of business, deserve?
Do you only deserve the results of what you have done? Some people can't do much. Does everyone deserve parents who love them? Does everyone deserve to be paid for their work? What if their work is not valued by society?
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I think it is very hard to determine precisely what an individual "deserves."
I agree, this is why we leave it in God's hands not the government. The government presumes to know what everyone deserves and sort it out properly. No. This is a very bad idea. We should leave that to the individuals and the communities to figure out for themselves. We could come up with hundreds of thousands of different solutions to address hundreds of thousands of different situations. But with the government taking the responsibility off of our shoulders we can sit back and ignore. It is not my problem, I voted for the right guy. Not only that but I think it destroys the community itself. There's no need for the community if there's no need. Actually, I don't think that's true "the poor you will always have with you". But it does allow us to neglect our community because the government will do it.
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Ondrej wrote:with the government taking the responsibility off of our shoulders we can sit back and ignore. It is not my problem, I voted for the right guy.
I think it's unfair to assume laziness on the part of the person who votes for more compassionate government policies. Maybe they genuinely believe that this is what a nation ought to look like - not that the government is doing the job for me, but that I am caring for the poor through the taxes I pay to the government. It's just upscaled, so other people can help out as well as me and more can be done.

Also I don't know any government which gives the homeless, the destitute, asylum seekers, the unemployed etc. such a good time that they love their lives and see no need to get a job. The government does the bare bones necessary to keep you alive. You still don't enjoy your life. There is no incentive to sit back and receive your welfare benefits, because you are still at the bottom of the ladder and your life sucks. There is plenty of opportunity for charities and communities to help such people further, and indeed that is what happens in every Western nation.
Ondrej wrote:this is why we leave it in God's hands not the government
I am not sure what you mean by this. We don't draw an either/or contrast between ourselves and God. We recognise that it is through our compassion to the poor that God has compassion on the poor. We don't say "God will take care of them so I don't have to." So why draw an either/or contrast between the government and God?
Ondrej wrote:The government presumes to know what everyone deserves and sort it out properly. No. This is a very bad idea. We should leave that to the individuals and the communities to figure out for themselves.
Why can't we just see the government as one big community of people?
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I think it's unfair to assume laziness on the part of the person who votes for more compassionate government policies. Maybe they genuinely believe that this is what a nation ought to look like - not that the government is doing the job for me, but that I am caring for the poor through the taxes I pay to the government.
Yes, I think you are right here in a way. They think it is the most effective way to be helpful. They do not picture it as though it will fall to them personally if the government doesn't do the job.
Also I don't know any government which gives the homeless, the destitute, asylum seekers, the unemployed etc. such a good time that they love their lives and see no need to get a job. The government does the bare bones necessary to keep you alive. You still don't enjoy your life. There is no incentive to sit back and receive your welfare benefits, because you are still at the bottom of the ladder and your life sucks.
It is a bit more complicated than that. If you get a job your benefits go down. So you must think very carefully about getting a job. Will you still be able to meet your bills? Do you really want to go to work every morning and spend all those hours at that menial job to stay in the same place? Maybe you can get a next job that is a bit better in a year or two. But the benefits go down again. Despite your improvement you are in the same place.

We want to make sure to help single mothers but to what degree are we encouraging single motherhood by supplanting what a man was traditionally meant to provide?

I lived in the projects for several years. Most were single mothers and everyone was very keenly aware that getting a job was risky. A few did try to get on their feet and get out of that situation but most were either resolved that this was just their lot in life or held out hope that they would score a man of means to support them. I recognize that you may recoil in horror at the thought of removing such provision for these people but that is not what I am looking at. I am asking, how did we get into this situation? We said it is ok to sleep around before marriage. There is no cost to that. We said you need not be ashamed if you get pregnant out of wedlock. We looked down on shotgun weddings as oppressive and controlling. (At this point I got distracted and now it is time for work. I think this was kind of going off on a tangent and I was going to try to bring it back around but I am out of time. I'll have to come back later and think on it again.)
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I'm afraid I don't know what "the projects" is but I think I understand from the context. I also think I visited you while you were living there.
Ondrej wrote:I recognize that you may recoil in horror at the thought of removing such provision for these people but that is not what I am looking at. I am asking, how did we get into this situation? We said it is ok to sleep around before marriage. There is no cost to that. We said you need not be ashamed if you get pregnant out of wedlock.
Okay first off, we mustn't assume that all these single mothers were breaking traditional morality. Isn't it true that for a significant portion of them, they followed all the rules, got married first, etc. and then their husband just up and left them? In which case wagging our fingers at them and saying "you should've waited" is simply false, before being heartless.

I agree that we need to encourage people to stick to traditional morality, but I think there are better ways of doing that than to punish people who have already made bad choices. One of my friends worked for years at this charity. They went around teaching teenagers about the value of waiting until you were married, and about what to look for in a good life-partner. This could be the most important work anyone is doing anywhere at the moment - preventing young people from making terrible decisions that destroy their lives. This is the sort of thing that will have positive ripple-effects on society for decades, yet they will not be thanked for it.

Whenever you offer someone a second chance at rebuilding their life after making a bad choice, you always decrease the deterrent for other people. I'm not sure this means that you shouldn't do it. For one thing, you don't exactly make their life so wonderful they would do it all again without hesitation. They still pay for their bad choice in many ways, with years of hardship, loneliness, and broken relationships. For another thing, it just doesn't seem to me the Christian way. The existence of some freeloaders should not put us off from being generous to those in need. There will always be some freeloaders - so much the worse for them. They are a slight inefficiency in a system of compassion, mercy, and second chances that is still way better than having nothing of the kind, and leaving people to rot as soon as they make a single mistake.
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I'm afraid I don't know what "the projects" is but I think I understand from the context. I also think I visited you while you were living there.
Yes, you were there.
Okay first off, we mustn't assume that all these single mothers were breaking traditional morality. Isn't it true that for a significant portion of them, they followed all the rules, got married first, etc. and then their husband just up and left them?
I very much doubt it. I'm sure that happens often too but that assumes that people will get married first. I'm not just basing this off conjecture though, there is a book or two that I've read on these stats. I'll have to dig through my phone and find them.

I'm of the opinion that our ancestors got it right, the children go with the man and he will provide for them. The woman wants the children so she is less inclined to leave her children. The man is less inclined than the woman to keep the children so would like to pawn them off on her but no, they are his responsibility. So he is much more inclined to keep their mother around to take care of them. This arrangement makes divorce sting more for both of them.

Giving the children to the woman pleases her emotionally but then how will she live with these poor children. Ah! She will take it from their father. I think it is an injustice to force a man to continue to provide for a woman after she has left him, just as it would be an injustice to force a woman to continue her wifely duties after a divorce. I know we cite the children for the transfer of wealth and there is justification for that but it would certainly be a lot less murky if they were his problem. I think everyone would be a lot more careful, which is to say, chaste.
This could be the most important work anyone is doing anywhere at the moment - preventing young people from making terrible decisions that destroy their lives. This is the sort of thing that will have positive ripple-effects on society for decades, yet they will not be thanked for it.
It could be. Can they measure the effectiveness?

They might be thanked by the people they impact. It sounds to me like a good thing to try.
Whenever you offer someone a second chance at rebuilding their life after making a bad choice, you always decrease the deterrent for other people. I'm not sure this means that you shouldn't do it.
I have never once argued that you shouldn't do it. In fact I have argued that you should. What I have argued is that the government shouldn't do it. Which is, in my mind, forcing other people to do it (and inefficiently). YOU should do it! I should do it! Not the government.
For another thing, it just doesn't seem to me the Christian way.
Nor does forcing what you see as a need onto someone else to fill. If you see the need it is on you to fill. Coercion is not the Christian way either.
The existence of some freeloaders should not put us off from being generous to those in need. There will always be some freeloaders - so much the worse for them.
I agree 100%
system of compassion, mercy, and second chances
As long as it is your personal system and is not tied to my bank account I've got no objections. I'll give where I think is right but, if my money isn't enough, I have no right to take from your bank account to make up the difference.
leaving people to rot as soon as they make a single mistake.
If that is what you think people will do in the absence of government coercion, you must not think very highly of your fellow man. I think people are less amicable the more government there is to take care of things. They don't realize that the cost is greater in the long run.
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Ondrej wrote:I have never once argued that you shouldn't do it. In fact I have argued that you should. What I have argued is that the government shouldn't do it. Which is, in my mind, forcing other people to do it (and inefficiently). YOU should do it! I should do it! Not the government.
I thought you were arguing in this thread that we shouldn't subsidise poor choices. Now you seem to be arguing that we should, but the government does not count as part of the "we" who help. But if that's true, then it makes irrelevant the whole debate about subsidising poor choices. I thought the point of that debate was to provide reasons not to help a single mom. Now you're saying it's to provide reasons not to demand that the government help her. What has that to do with whether or not to subsidise poor choices?

This plays into my question here where I am confused about what "capitalism" really is. Is capitalism only saying "the government shouldn't do it" or is it also saying "nobody should do it: we should leave it up to the free market [or "God" you once said] to reward and punish and we should not interfere"???
Ondrej wrote:Nor does forcing what you see as a need onto someone else to fill. If you see the need it is on you to fill. Coercion is not the Christian way either.
Coercion is usually not the Christian way. Unless you're a pacifist, you agree that sometimes we must coerce people not to harm others. Unless you're an anarchist, you agree that we must coerce people to pay for the benefits they receive from the police, roads, law courts etc. I asked what you thought about this on this thread. I eagerly await your opinion on pacifism and anarchism, but if you agree, then the question is: can we extend this same principle to argue that citizens have a mutual responsibility for each other's welfare?

The argument would run like this: we are all interconnected in more ways than we realize. I am not an isolated individual ("no man is an island"). My actions have a ripple effect on those around me. Even if I don't intend harm, I can cause harm by negligence. I can kill people by driving recklessly, to pick an easy example. I can cause harm indirectly, by buying a product made in a factory that pollutes the air and damages people's lungs, or by buying a computer whose CPU was made by materials mined by slaves. I can vote for a government that legalises abortion, and am thus implicated in the resulting deaths.

A nation is a collection of people whose lives are interwoven and who have chosen to embark on society together. They can jointly decide to take responsibility for each other, and to pool their resources to provide support for anyone whose life falls apart. Sure, maybe the decision was not unanimous - what political decision ever is? If you like, you can call it coercion. But the vast majority of the world's population and the entirety of people throughout history, up until recently, would agree that it is ethically acceptable and not the same as theft.

In relation to this, this morning I read the following which seemed relevant:
Matthew Gibney, in The Ethics and Politics of Asylum wrote: If national welfare programs, disaster assistance, regional subsidies and the like are to find support at the national level, members must believe that they have obligations not only to those in their region, class or ethnic group but to their fellow citizens qua citizens. It should not surprise us that the US, widely seen as the exemplar of a state whose members share only political values, is arguably also the least social democratic of Western states.
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I thought you were arguing in this thread that we shouldn't subsidise poor choices. Now you seem to be arguing that we should, but the government does not count as part of the "we" who help. But if that's true, then it makes irrelevant the whole debate about subsidising poor choices. I thought the point of that debate was to provide reasons not to help a single mom. Now you're saying it's to provide reasons not to demand that the government help her. What has that to do with whether or not to subsidise poor choices?

This plays into my question here where I am confused about what "capitalism" really is. Is capitalism only saying "the government shouldn't do it" or is it also saying "nobody should do it: we should leave it up to the free market [or "God" you once said] to reward and punish and we should not interfere"???
Ah, ok, yet this helps me clarify my own thoughts. In the subsidising poor choices I am thinking about the government giving people money who have made poor choices. When we think of cigarette smokers they do not get the same treatment as single mothers (or any number of other poor life choices). They do not get praised, they do not get screen time, they are shunned and stigmatized. We place added taxes on them and charge them more for health insurance. If we are so compassionate why do we do such things to this population that statistically speaking is also the poorest. We do this partially for their own good and partially for the good of everyone else. We want them to decide to quit smoking for their health and we don't want anyone else to begin smoking. We are clearly not subsidizing this behavior in any way that you spin it. We recognize that when you tax a certain behavior you will get less of it. But then what are we doing with social safety net? Aren't we incentivizing poor behavior? What if we decided to give free healthcare for all the smokers because they "need" it? Wouldn't you agree that it is incentivizing smoking? In the same way, government benefits are subsidizing poor choices when they "pick up the slack" at taxpayer expense. However, I think it is perfectly right and good and deeply meaningful if people were to pool their resources voluntarily to help out a smoker who wants a lung transplant and can't afford it. It is infinitely more meaningful when people do this voluntarily.

Capitalism simply says that people cannot take what is yours. No theft. It does not weigh in on any other virtue, probably because that is the only one that is really mathematically specific and doesn't rely on people's intentions and nuance. If you freely give, that is no violation of capitalism. It does not speak to that specifically. However, people will speak to that. If you give and are reciprocating and consider others, you will certainly be much more successful. Capitalism doesn't actually specify this. It is left up to the individuals to figure out. It doesn't say what you should and shouldn't do beyond theft. This is why we do need some amount of other guidance. For example, we have decided selling humans is not a tolerable way to make a living and despite capitalism's silence on it, we will not stand for that no matter if there is demand for it. We, after all, make the rules.
Coercion is usually not the Christian way. Unless you're a pacifist, you agree that sometimes we must coerce people not to harm others. Unless you're an anarchist, you agree that we must coerce people to pay for the benefits they receive from the police, roads, law courts etc. I asked what you thought about this on this thread. I eagerly await your opinion on pacifism and anarchism, but if you agree, then the question is: can we extend this same principle to argue that citizens have a mutual responsibility for each other's welfare?
Yes, I've been thinking about this. There is the non-aggression principle that I guess I've absorbed and thought was "true". Something like aggression is never the right way. And then we pass a new law. But the law will be enforced by police backed by the state. So every new law is an aggression against whoever is transgressing the law. So every new law is in violation of the non-aggression principle. The same with wars. America is incessantly meddling across the globe at precipitous taxpayer expense. It is not at all clear that this is benefiting the taxpayer meaningfully. In any case, we are perfectly willing to suspend the non-aggression principle for new laws and new wars. So it is not true that we think things should be done peacefully. Some things shouldn't be done peacefully, apparently. But in both of these cases it is the government that we allow to be the aggressor.

In that thread I was really kicking myself for talking too much. I should have left it at "where is the line? How much can the government take from people before it is theft?" But I went and added "who get's to decide?" so you didn't address the real concern. Certainly the politicians in the "people's" republic of North Korea insist that the people are in agreement with the present rule. And maybe many of them are. But surely we can recognize that at some level of authoritarianism it is no longer a good thing. Or maybe, as long as the dictator is "good" and "benevolent" we will agree with more and more authoritarian rule because they agree with our sensibilities. Which is where propaganda enters the scene. If you can convince everyone that you are good and benevolent then you can act in authoritarian ways and garner praise.

To the question: I do think citizens have a mutual responsibility for each other's welfare as far as Christianity is concerned. I think this must be voluntarily taken up by the citizens not coercively extracted from them by well meaning politicians. If it is done at the point of a gun it is not care, nor compassion, nor responsibility. The coercion removes the good that it might have contained just as a woman's consent changes the action from love to rape. We would react with shock and horror if we coercively forced women to "provide" for men who "needed" it. In the proper context the action is right and good, if it is coerced, it is deeply wrong.
A nation is a collection of people whose lives are interwoven and who have chosen to embark on society together. They can jointly decide to take responsibility for each other, and to pool their resources to provide support for anyone whose life falls apart.
It is interesting that it is always the cities that talk about government enforcing this idea. The countryside practices this idea, at least in America, but I suspect this is somewhat universal. I guess people in cities don't care for one another. Maybe this should be done on a citywide basis and see how it fairs. I suspect it would fair poorly.
widely seen as the exemplar of a state whose members share only political values, is arguably also the least social democratic of Western states.
Well, we started with "Give me your tired, your poor, your huddled masses yearning to breathe free." because we had no welfare and no restrictions on business. Come make something of yourself. It was free, but also dangerous. It turns out you cannot say "give me your tired, your poor, your huddled masses" while you also give them free food and healthcare etc. It only works if there is nothing else you offer but their freedom. But I digress. That is the spirit in which America was founded. The nation was a nation bound together not by any national origin or ethnicity but by pride of being part of America and standing for freedom of the individual and freedom from overreach and tyranny from the government. This is why the current state of affairs is so troubling to Americans. We are supposed to be the land of freedom. Where you can come take refuge from your oppressive country. But compassion and the idea of provision for everyone is ruining everything. It is not supposed to be provision, it is supposed to be freedom. We have forgotten.
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Ondrej wrote:What if we decided to give free healthcare for all the smokers because they "need" it? Wouldn't you agree that it is incentivizing smoking? In the same way, government benefits are subsidizing poor choices when they "pick up the slack" at taxpayer expense.
We don't want to incentivise bad behaviour, yet what is the difference between a smoker and a single mom? In the case of a single mom, we offer help partly because it is not only the mom whose future is at stake, and it would be unfair to make the children pay for the mom's mistakes more than they are already doing psychologically.

As for the smokers - everyone has free healthcare in the UK. I don't know the statistics but I doubt that many more people smoke proportionally. There's plenty of disincentives for smoking besides the presence or absence of free healthcare, yet even without free healthcare many people in America smoke. I suspect that people who smoke aren't thinking in a joined-up way about their lives. They aren't hopeful about their futures. They have lost a sense of reaping the consequences of your actions because they only live in the present, they just want to survive the present, and a cigarette will help them do that. That's why I don't think free healthcare makes much of a difference either way: smokers aren't thinking that far ahead.

And I think the same is true for single moms. Nobody wants to become a single mom (well, hardly anybody). It happens because people aren't thinking in a joined-up way about the future consequences of their actions. Why aren't they? Probably they have messed-up psychologies because of their own messed-up childhood, and so the chain of destruction continues... Perhaps they simply weren't taught as children that you should wait to get married and then stay married. Do we blame them for their ignorance? That doesn't seem fair or just. Either way I'm pretty sure a lot of people would become single moms even without all the welfare. It happens in states that don't have welfare. It happens because we are foolish and make foolish choices because we're messed up. Holding an individual responsible for his or her behaviour may seem like the most fair thing to do, but it ignores all the baggage they carry that they didn't choose or ask for. I didn't choose good parents who remained together and who loved me and taught me wisdom. They didn't choose bad parents who separated and didn't teach them wisdom. Our successes and failures are not only due to our own individual good or bad choices.

OK that's a long enough response. I'll make new threads for the other things you brought up.
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With the comparison to smokers, I think my point was just to compare how one "sees" smoking presented as an example of something we don't want to promote and then to contrast that with how other things are presented, e.g. single motherhood, being overweight, lgbtq, hard work and sacrifice etc.
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