We actually didn't discuss whether it is fashionable. I have mentioned this several times as a reason for people doing things. People just accept and repeat things they pick up from the culture around them. Without knowing whether it is true. And fair enough, one cannot pay attention to everything.To me it's irrelevant whether such a discourse is "popular" or "fashionable." I care first whether it's true, and second what it means about ourselves.
If your problem is that the narrative is often one-sided, I agree. But the solution is not to present another one-sided narrative. That is what "the right" does all the time and it only makes all the same mistakes they accuse those on "the left" of making.
If we think there is some good in Christian values, then we need to humbly admit the mistakes of past generations. We need to stop pretending that everything was better before the West abandoned Christian values. It was better only for a tiny minority of wealthy and powerful people, who got their wealth and power by dishonest means.
That is the power and meaning of the narrative. Now let's leave off discussing whether it's fashionable and ask to what extent it is true.
It is admirable to search out the truth but the problem is more subtle still. I assume you are aware of the dihydrogen monoxide "hoax" where water is called by an obscure scientific name and then reported on, truthfully, in the most negative light. The rub is it's all true but somehow false nevertheless because of the incomplete picture. This is the approach critical theory takes, to problematize anything it objects to. Of course some things are absolutely true but if the whole goal is to find the problems, present them prominently and spin a narrative as though this is the full picture, then the observer/listener is gravely misled.
I think this statement indicates you have been clearly misled.
Poverty rates are falling everywhere and the rate is accelerating. Child mortality rates are dropping for everyone not just the wealthy elites. Life spans are improving. Our primary problem in the West, especially in America, is that we eat too much food and exercise too little. This is not a good thing but indicates we have, generally speaking, plenty to eat and do not work such physically taxing jobs as in previous generations. Standards of living have been improving for everyone. 100 years ago a car was an ultra luxury item. Today, there's really not a tremendous difference between the most expensive car and the cheapest car. They are both quite reliable, get you from point A to point B, and all things considered both are fairly stylish. Poor people can access the internet increasingly by using cell phones (if they cannot afford a real computer). The list could go on as I'm sure you are well aware.It was better only for a tiny minority of wealthy and powerful people, who got their wealth and power by dishonest means.
I have probably mentioned it before but I'll put it here again for several reasons. 1) you mentioned you don't care whether something is popular but want to get at the truth, 2) you have suggested you might be open to the idea, 3) the author is actually a lefty guy. The book is "Why Men Earn More" by Warren Farrell. As far as my memory serves, he wanted to research why men were able to earn more and warn his daughters how best to navigate a discriminatory work environment. He assumed the "women earn only 70 cents for every dollar a man makes" was a straight forward result of some sort of discrimination. Where did he pick this idea up? It is fashionable. It is also TRUE! At least the 70 cents on the dollar part, but the picture you are led to form because of this narrative is not true at all. Then this picture is used to justify all sorts of actions and condemn as sexist anyone who might question it.
The last sentence gets at another part of the problem. The left is so quick to get rid of opposition through silencing rather than debating the ideas, they position themselves in a precarious position to clearly judge where the truth is. Warren Farrell mentions that he lost many friends. James Lindsay (of the New Discourses podcast, hey look I remembered his name!) mentions that he was rather surprised that the right would have much more discussion and constructive conversations than the left. The left argues that they are fostering an inclusive and tolerant environment but this is not different from removing/silencing dissenting voices. It is intolerance and exclusion. Then they accuse the right of being in an echo chamber because they disagree with what "everyone" knows to be true, i.e. what is fashionable, "the narrative". I think I'm just rambling now. But I think if you read this book and find it convincing it will help reveal what I am talking about regarding "the narrative" and how what you think you know because everyone thinks this, is completely wrong. The good news is this is actually good news.